By Belladonna

Get your priorities straight and talk to the guys about sex. You have to consult with your friends. Guys want to get laid -- let's be real -- a lot of the time guys are going to want to get laid or get hummers. Whatever.

If they want "extras" they cannot have the party at a bar. A private room in a bar is not a good place to be getting a hummer. If you really want to get laid - if that's your goal or you know your friends are horny guys and they really want some action after their show, and your privacy means a lot to you -- a hotel room or someone's house is the way to go. There are places like private lofts that people rent for parties. That is the best way to go if you want privacy and to go nuts.

If you want to have the option of getting laid afterwards, you need privacy. If you get a hotel room makes sure it's at least a one bedroom suite. Two bathrooms will help if there are a lot of guys drinking, and someone needs to use the bathroom. If someone is in their getting a blowjob that presents a problem, doesn't it?

It's always a big plus to have an extra bathroom, when you get a big suite. And don't put beer in the bathtub! People might want to take a shower! So get two bathrooms. Girls and guys may want to take showers, people throw up, and people get dirty.

I usually give advice on which hotels to get and which ones not to get. Of course, a lot of hotels have a policy against parties or a lot of people occupying one room. So, No. 1, you're not going to tell them you're having a party. No. 2 you want a one or two bedroom suite, one up against the wall, the last suite on the floor that won't make too much noise for the people next door. You don't want to be in the middle of the floor between two other rooms where people are trying to sleep, or course they're going to complain.

There are young, trendy hotels like the "W" and SoHo Grand that are more likely not to kick you out if you're having a party. They might give you a warning if you're too rowdy. They will usually let you get away with a lot at those hotels if you spend a lot of money on a suite. If you get like a penthouse or presidential suite, you're not as likely to get kicked out. Depending on your budget, try and get a really good suite, in a corner of the floor is the best location. Hotels are not cheap in Manhattan, if you're on a budget, you're in trouble.